Don't Let Him or Her Break your Heart

Another person can't break your heart, unless you give it to them. Several ways this can happen: Idolizing the person, thinking that your existence depends on him or her, depending on that person for comfort and security, becoming too attach to the person, as if he or she is your life support, and finally, trying to win a person who neglects you.
        A person who rejected you, whether he or she was in, or out of your life did it for a reason. It could be one of the following reasons: You become too obsessive, and as a result your special person becomes a stumbling block to your progress. Thus, the person has to leave you because there is no progress in your life. 
        Secondly, your dearest sweet heart might want to move on, where he, or she think the grass is greener. In the latter case, your heart breaker is someone of a double mind; unstable in all his, her ways. To prevent your heart from broken, put God first in your life and all other second

A Relationship of Love

Enter a relationship with Love and not with the expectation of gains. Love is the expressed desire for your mate betterment. Therefore, each person should bring to the table a blue print whereby the relationship can grow and succeed. One should endeavour to bring the best out of a mate. Take time out to know your partner, so you will know what delight or anger your sweetie. Once, you know your lovy dobby you will able to maintain your partner qualities that will benefit the relationship. I am sure, you wouldn't want to do anything to get your special one get bitter, because for even a little moment, if you lose out on the sweetness of your relationship, it can be a stressful moment. 
           For every relationship to work, there must be an equilibrium: Each partner has an equal obligation to please each other and make the relationship works. If he brings home flowers regularly, it won't hurt, if she sacrifice and buy a pair of lingerie to lighten up the bedroom. 
          That doesn't mean a relationship just base on sex. There are much more to a relationship, such as finance, career, house keeping etc. However, in every possibe ways help shoulder each other responsibilities, and it will likely succeed than fail.

Love Can't Be Bought

     Some guys will do whatever it takes to win someone they have a crush on.  He will shower her with gifts, take her to expensive places, and impress her with large sum of money.  Sometimes these poor fellows will incur debts upon debts to maitain and keep that special one.
     Love is a strong affection one has for another, which doesn't base on money or materialistic things.  Therefore, when you take out the apple of your eye for the first time, spend within your reach.  Don't spend all you have, then begin to worry about  how the bills are going to be paid.  Don't indulge in exaggeration.  Let she sees you for who you are and not what you have.  If she loves you she will stay with you, and she will even share some of the date's expences.  If she rejects you, because she is not receiving enough gifts or dough from you, it is time to move to another pebble. Her action would be a sign that her love is for sale.  You would not want to be in such turmoil, because you will not able to finish pay for her love.